Use 'a near thing' when telling about events where an outcome was uncertain until the last moment. When we landed safely after severe turbulence, I whispered, 'It was a near thing.'
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Implied Relief
'A near thing' often implies relief that something worse didn't happen. Jim returned from the wild river trip unharmed; it was such a near thing!
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Tense Situations
Use it when talking about tense situations with high stakes or risk. He avoided the accident by inches. It was a near thing, indeed.