A thorn in somebody’s flesh/side Definition 1 of 1Pro Tip 1/3Consistent Irritant Refers to ongoing issues, not a one-time problem. Trying to get a visa has been a thorn in my side for months. Pro Tip 2/3Negative Emotion Conveys a sense of frustration or irritation with a person or issue. My computer crashes daily, becoming a thorn in my flesh. Pro Tip 3/3Metaphorical Use Not a physical thorn, but symbolizes something bothersome. His constant jokes about my job have turned him into a thorn in my side.