The phrase is used to express a strong feeling of frustration or exhaustion. I've been trying to fix this error for hours; I'm at the end of my tether.
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Figurative Meaning
The phrase isn't about actual ropes or tethers but feeling restricted or out of options. With all these debts piling up, I'm at the end of my tether.
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Overwhelmed
Use it when someone can't cope with difficulties anymore. If the baby doesn't stop crying, I'll be at the end of my tether.