Cool it! Definition 1 of 2Pro Tip 1/3Emotion Control Use 'cool it!' to de-escalate a situation where someone is angry or overly excited. They started yelling, so I told them to cool it. Pro Tip 2/3Colloquial Caution It's casual speech. Not appropriate for formal situations like work meetings or writing essays. Wouldn't say 'cool it' to my boss, but to friends. Pro Tip 3/3Friendly Tone The tone when saying 'cool it' should be friendly or joking, to avoid offending someone. I smiled and said, 'Hey, cool it, we're on the same team!'