Frighten/scare the life out of somebody Definition 1 of 1Pro Tip 1/3Intensity Used for situations of extreme fear, not just mild surprise. The horror movie scared the life out of me. Pro Tip 2/3Figurative It's an expression, meaning no one actually loses their life from fear. You jumping out at me scared the life out of me! Pro Tip 3/3Informal Common in casual speech but not suitable for formal situations. She scared the life out of me, sneaking up like that!