The phrase is casual and might not be suitable in formal situations or with authority figures.

Informal Usage

It suggests someone is causing a strong, often negative, impact on another's life.

Intensity Implied

The phrase can imply emotional stress, not just physical or logistical difficulties.

It often means the criticism is harsh or severe, not mild or gentle.

The phrase can indicate a confrontational or aggressive tone of reprimand.

Using the phrase suggests strong disapproval rather than constructive feedback.