Pay back Definition 1 of 3Pro Tip 1/3Time Frame Specify when you'll return the money to show responsibility and build trust. I'll pay you back next Friday. Pro Tip 2/3Not Always Cash 'Pay back' can mean returning the same amount in a different form, not just money. He didn't have the money, so he paid me back with his guitar. Pro Tip 3/3Gratitude Expression When repaying a loan, expressing thanks can show appreciation for the lender's help. Here’s the money I owe you, thank you for helping me out.