Rough up Definition 1 of 2Pro Tip 1/3Figurative Usage Used metaphorically for non-physical intimidation as well. The interviewers roughed me up with their tough questions. Pro Tip 2/3Negative Connotation Implies a harmful intention and can suggest illegality or immorality. The thugs threatened to rough up anyone who refused to pay. Pro Tip 3/3Physical Confrontation Generally indicates some level of violence but not severe injury. After the match, the losing team tried to rough up the winners.