Shoot the messenger Definition 1 of 2Pro Tip 1/3Negative Context Used when someone is unfairly blamed for conveying unfavorable news. The team lost, but don't shoot the messenger; I just heard it too. Pro Tip 2/3Defensive Tone People often say 'Don't shoot the messenger' as a way to protect themselves. I don't know why we're out of stock—don't shoot the messenger! Pro Tip 3/3Metaphoric Phrase It's a metaphor; no actual shooting is happening, it's about not blaming. I'm just delivering the news, so please don't shoot the messenger.