Take somebody as you find them
Definition 1 of 1
Pro Tip 1/3Unconditional Acceptance
This phrase emphasizes accepting someone's unique qualities without judgment. 
My grandpa can be quite stubborn, but we take him as we find him.
Pro Tip 2/3Avoid Assumptions
Don't make assumptions about someone before getting to know them personally. 
Don't listen to rumors; it's better to take people as you find them.
Pro Tip 3/3Contextual Usage
Used often in discussions about personal relationships and first impressions. 
She may come across as cold, but take her as you find her and you'll see her warmth.