Take something hard Definition 1 of 2Pro Tip 1/3Emotional Weight Use it when an event causes strong emotional pain or sadness. After losing the competition, he took it very hard. Pro Tip 2/3Non-literal Impact Understand that 'hard' doesn't mean physical force here, but emotional intensity. When her pet rabbit died, she took it hard. Pro Tip 3/3Contextual Use Best fits personal situations, not as much for general or minor setbacks. He didn't take the team's loss hard; he's not a big fan anyway.