This phrase suggests a slow, gradual process, not something that happens quickly.

Patience Required

To 'worm your way into' implies moving into something unnoticed, like a worm burrows unseen.

Stealth Involved

The phrase can have a negative connotation, implying manipulation or deceit.

This use of the phrase often involves creating a bond or emotional tie with someone.

Here, 'worm your way into' can portray the person’s actions as charming or endearing.

The phrase implies using subtle, indirect methods rather than direct requests.