
You’ve made your bed and you must lie in/on it
Consequence Focus
This phrase emphasizes responsibility for one's choices, often with a hint of disapproval or a tough-love attitude. 
Irreversible Actions
It suggests that the situation is the direct outcome of one's actions, and it's too late to change it now. 
No Sympathy
There's usually no sympathy for the person; it implies they must accept the situation without expecting help. 