
Paternalistic
Condescending Tone
Using 'paternalistic' can imply that someone is talking down to others, as though they're children. 
Implicit Control
The word often suggests someone is imposing their will or decisions on others, even if they believe it's for the other's benefit. 
Cultural Sensitivity
'Paternalistic' can be seen as a negative judgment of certain cultural norms, so use it cautiously. 