Wheedle/ˈwiːdl/ Definition 1 of 1Pro Tip 1/3Intimate Persuasion Wheedle implies a close relationship where flattery works better than logic. She wheedled her best friend into sharing her secret recipe. Pro Tip 2/3Slightly Scheming Wheedling can suggest a hint of manipulation, though often in a harmless way. He wheedled a second helping of dessert from his grandma. Pro Tip 3/3Soft Approach The technique involves gentle and persistent persuasion, not aggressive demands. Can you wheedle a compliment out of him about my new haircut?