Pamper/ˈpæmpər/ Definition 1 of 3Pro Tip 1/3Excessive Kindness Using 'pamper' implies going beyond normal kindness, often more than necessary. Grandparents love to pamper their grandchildren during visits. Pro Tip 2/3Not Always Positive 'Pamper' sometimes has a negative tone, suggesting someone is overindulged. Her parents pamper her so much that she seems spoiled. Pro Tip 3/3Affectionate Context 'Pamper' often occurs in situations showing affection, like family or relationships. On her birthday, he pampered her with a surprise dinner.