As it were Definition 1 of 1Pro Tip 1/3Softening Statements Use 'as it were' to make a strong statement or opinion less direct or blunt. She took charge of the situation, the leader, as it were. Pro Tip 2/3Irony or Humor It's often used to add a humorous or ironic spin to a statement. I was the chef of the evening, as it were, with my one signature dish. Pro Tip 3/3Imperfect Metaphors Use when you're making a comparison that isn't literal or precise. We navigated the shopping mall, a jungle, as it were.