Ask after Definition 1 of 1Pro Tip 1/3Caring Gesture Using 'ask after' shows concern for someone's health or life. When you were ill, your colleagues were asking after you. Pro Tip 2/3Social Politeness It's a polite way to show interest in someone's family or close ones. I met John at the party and he asked after your family. Pro Tip 3/3Not prying 'Ask after' is not intrusive; it doesn't demand details, just a general update. She asked after your new job but didn't want to pry.