Ask for it Definition 1 of 2Pro Tip 1/3Active Request Use 'ask for it' when you actively want something from someone. She really likes him, so she decided to ask for his number. Pro Tip 2/3Polite Demands 'Ask for it' is politer than 'demand'. Use it when being courteous. During the meeting, I will ask for a chance to present my ideas. Pro Tip 3/3Suggestive Tone The phrase implies you should take initiative rather than wait. You need a break. Go ask for a day off.