
Be the despair of somebody
Emotional Weight
The phrase carries a strong emotional charge, often implying deep disappointment or distress.

Despite his talents, he's the despair of his mentors with his lack of ambition.
Negative Connotation
Using 'the despair of' indicates a negative sentiment towards someone's behavior or situation.

She is the despair of her team, missing deadlines consistently.
Hyperbole Usage
It's often used hyperbolically to emphasize how challenging someone or something is.

This complicated case is the despair of the detectives.
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