Be/feel sorry for somebody Definition 1 of 2Pro Tip 1/3Empathetic Tone Use it to show deep understanding of someone's difficult situation. Seeing her struggle, I couldn't help but feel sorry for her. Pro Tip 2/3Not Patronizing Be careful not to sound superior or condescending when expressing pity. I feel sorry for those affected by the strike, and I hope they get support. Pro Tip 3/3Genuine Concern Express sorrow for someone only if you genuinely care about their situation. He's been through so much, and I truly feel sorry for him.