Come by Definition 1 of 3Pro Tip 1/3Scarcity Context Use 'come by' to emphasize difficulty in obtaining something. Vintage comics are hard to come by. Pro Tip 2/3Recent Rarity Describe recent changes in availability, suggesting something was once easier to find. After the recall, that toy has become impossible to come by. Pro Tip 3/3Conversational Tone Best used in casual or conversational contexts, not in very formal writing. Since moving, a good pizza place is tough to come by.