Do you mind? Definition 1 of 3Pro Tip 1/3Seeking Permission Shows politeness when asking to do something, implying you'll respect their answer. Do you mind if I take a seat here? Pro Tip 2/3Expecting 'No' Typically, the question expects a negative response, granting permission. Do you mind if I use your pen? - No, go ahead. Pro Tip 3/3Conversational Entry Used to interrupt or join in a conversation discreetly and courteously. Do you mind if I give my opinion?