This phrase is not about physical objects. It implies receiving benefits without effort. He was promoted because of his connections, his career was handed to him on a plate.
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Potential Resentment
This expression can imply envy or disapproval when someone receives things easily. She got the job only because of her aunt, it was handed to her on a plate.
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Not Literal
It's an idiom; don't expect to see someone physically handing over a plate. Just because he's the boss's son doesn't mean success will be handed to him on a plate.