
How can/could you!
Emotional Charge
This phrase often conveys strong emotions like betrayal or hurt feelings.
How could you forget our anniversary?
Common Misuse
Don't use it for mild annoyances, it's for serious actions.
How could you not answer my message for a week?
Conversational Tone
It's informal, often used among friends, family, or close relationships.
How can you just cancel our plans last minute?