If not Definition 1 of 3Pro Tip 1/3Expressing Uncertainty Use 'if not' to show you're unsure about something but considering possibilities. She might join us for dinner, if not lunch. Pro Tip 2/3Implying Alternatives Suggest an alternative action or time frame without specifying what it is exactly. We'll meet tomorrow, if not sometime this week. Pro Tip 3/3Softening Statements Use 'if not' to soften the impact of a statement that might be too direct. That sounds like a good plan, if not the best one.