Use 'lay somebody to rest' when referring to burial procedures as part of a funeral. After the funeral service, we will lay her to rest beside her husband.
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Respect and Sympathy
This phrase is gentle and shows respect. Use it to express sympathy for the deceased. He was a good man, and we are here to lay him to rest with dignity.
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Metaphorical Use
Can be used metaphorically for ending things other than life, like retiring a ship. The old ship was finally laid to rest after years of service at sea.