Not at all Definition 1 of 3Pro Tip 1/3Strong Denial Use 'not at all' to emphasize a complete lack of possibility or truth in a situation. Are you upset with me? Not at all! Pro Tip 2/3Gracious Refusal When refusing an offer, 'not at all' softens the response, making it sound more polite. Would you like more coffee? Not at all, thank you. Pro Tip 3/3Clarifying Misunderstandings 'Not at all' can be used to correct someone's false beliefs or claims about you. So, you're leaving the job? Not at all, I got a promotion.