Abbot/ˈæbət/ Definition 1 of 2Pro Tip 1/3Gender Specific The title 'abbot' is only used for males leading a monastery. Sister Mary spoke to the abbot about the church event. Pro Tip 2/3Leadership Role An abbot is similar to a CEO, but for a religious community. The abbot managed the monastery's funds carefully. Pro Tip 3/3Specific Order Not all monks can become abbots; it's a special role often requiring election or appointment. After years of service, Brother John was elected abbot.