Absently/ˈæbsəntli/ Definition 1 of 1Pro Tip 1/3Lack of Focus Used when someone isn't paying full attention to their current activity or surroundings. She turned the pages absently, her thoughts elsewhere. Pro Tip 2/3Unintentional Action Describes an action done without conscious control or intention, often habitual. He absently twirled his pen while lost in thought. Pro Tip 3/3Subtle Emotion Conveys a mild, non-intense emotion, not strong detachment or aloofness. Her smile was absently polite, not truly engaged.