Demure/dɪˈmjʊr/ Definition 1 of 2Pro Tip 1/3Subtly Attractive Demure implies attractiveness through modesty without seeking attention. Despite her demure appearance, she caught everyone's eye. Pro Tip 2/3Positive Connotation Demure suggests positive characteristics like politeness and kindness. His demure nature made him well-liked by his peers. Pro Tip 3/3Historical Gender Use Historically used more for women, but it's acceptable for any gender. The demure gentleman held the door open for others.