Forbearance/fɔːrˈberəns/ Definition 1 of 2Pro Tip 1/3Self-Control Refers to someone's ability to control their actions and emotions. She displayed remarkable forbearance when provoked. Pro Tip 2/3Not Immediate Forbearance involves a delay or holding back now for better outcome later. His forbearance to counterattack allowed for a peaceful resolution. Pro Tip 3/3Not Weakness Choosing forbearance is often a sign of strength, not weakness. The general's forbearance in battle earned him respect.